This is something that women tend to do more than men. I mean, let’s face it, men can’t fake orgasms because when they orgasm, they ejaculate and they lose wood. Whereas, women are multi-orgasmic beings and they don’t always ejaculate during orgasm. So it’s pretty easy to fake it.
Studies have shown that 70 to 75% of women fake orgasms. So the big question is – why?
Women can orgasm through many ways, with a partner or with many different sex toys – manual clitoral stimulation, direct clitoral stimulation, g-spot stimulation, oral sex and full-on sexual intercourse. So it’s weird when the statistics are saying a lot of women tend to fake orgasms.
Women are blessed with being multi-orgasmic, everybody knows that. The problem is they tend to abuse that for many different reasons. Is it a psychological thing? Is it an intimacy thing? Or is it a physical thing? Let’s have a look shall we?
Why do women fake orgasms?
Some women fake orgasms to avoid the negative emotions associated to sex like their insecurities or their fear of intimacy. By faking their orgasms, they reassure themselves that they’re great in bed.
The “fake it til you make it” theory also plays in their mind so they think if they fake the orgasm, the real one will follow suit.
Sometimes, it’s because these women want so badly to please their partner that they fake having the orgasm to boost their partner’s confidence and avoid hurting their feelings in the process.
Other times, it could simply be the fact that these women are not in the mood or it’s not enjoyable for them. At times like these, all they want is to get it over and done with. So they fake the orgasm so it speeds up the process.
Sometimes, if it has already become a habit, it’s hard to break it. They’ll be too used to faking it all the time that they won’t be able to not fake it anymore.
Women also respond to positive reinforcement. So if their partner is not showing any signs of being pleasured or not expressing any excitement in the sex, she will end up faking her orgasm.
Many women also tend to fake orgasms to match their partner’s orgasm too so it seems like they both came at the same time which leads to a more prolonged relationship with their partner because they’re more turned on by their matched climax.
Sometimes, it just doesn’t happen. Even though the sex may be awesome, and the person you’re with is insanely hot and doing all the right things, sometimes you just can’t reach climax. At times like these, women end up faking it.
There could be a slew of different factors for women to fake their orgasms. So if you’re reading this and you think your woman has done at least one of them, don’t get mad, talk it out and find a good solution so she stops faking it and starts really enjoying the sex with natural orgasms.